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Ben Halpern
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What do your friends and family think software development is like?

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Bruno

They think it's more about "math" than it really is.

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Eelco Verbrugge

So true, but what is it really about according to you?

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Constantin

Logic and abstraction

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sudarshan

they think my job is to only stare at my 27-inch monitor whole day and sometimes say "yes" while wearing headphones.

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Ishaan Sheikh • Edited

They probably think I read emails, attend calls and just type on my computer.

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Diego (Relatable Code)

They think its tapping away at a keyboard like a TV hacker.

That or I fix printers.

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Alhassan Kamil

Most of them have no clue what I do. Some be like: "wow, you're really patient arranging those words in such a nice way". When they come closer, then they'll begin to complain: "mmm, they're not even meaningful words; you just like typing on your laptop".

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Aileen Rae

In general my family think I "work with computers" so I'm the go-to for fixing WiFi routers, changing mobile phone settings, updating computers, etc.

I try to tell them this is not a web developer's job, but since I am a bit more technically proficient than them and I can find the solutions via Google they remain unconvinced.

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jonah-butler

exactly, the fam knows you're a software developer and suddenly we are the Geek Squad too.

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Meir Gabay

That I work in the Matrix

Especially when they see the terminal running some npm install or cmake .. Those 483648 lines of output do the trick

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Tawhid

and mine is when they see me do sudo apt-get update with zsh and powerlevel10k

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Lou Willoughby

My parents and partner have no idea what I do, my partner really tries to understand but when I show them something I’m really excited about they just look at me like 👀👀

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Kevin R • Edited

I'm just an advanced version of my father (retired Computer Technician). Unless it's relevant to them.

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Adam Crockett 🌀

my girlfriend tells me standups are too long which is quite amuzing, but this is customer standups mind you. Her accuracy knows no bounds :)

She also hates when I write formulas on her spredsheets even if they are great and helpful

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Brian M.

"He works on the internet".

"I draw really tiny colored squares, millions of them"

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Chris Greening

Man with mullet and old glasses with text that says Hackerman

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Tawhid

That's a classic!

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Chris Greening

System.out.println("Time Hacked successfully.");

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Mahmoud Harmouch

One picture that sums it all up:
software engineer

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David Dal Busco

One of my friend says that "I get paid to piss code"

He's not wrong