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Day 88: When Criticism Backfires Spectacularly

Today started different. Actually woke up fresh for once - turns out Monster energy crashes have their limits and sometimes your body just forces a reset.

The Presentation Plot Twist

Had a mock presentation practice today, and here's where it gets interesting. This guy watches my run-through and casually drops "I think you can do better." Fair enough, constructive criticism is valuable, right?

Then he starts his presentation.

And completely bombs it.

The irony was so thick you could cut it with a knife. Nothing quite like receiving critique from someone who immediately demonstrates they can't execute what they're advising on. It's like a masterclass in unearned confidence.

The God-Tier Rewrite

But here's the thing - he wasn't entirely wrong about the scope for improvement. So instead of getting defensive, I channeled that energy into rewriting my entire script. Not because of his feedback specifically, but because the moment made me realize I could push it further.

Rewrote it like I'm the main character of my own story (which, let's be honest, I am). Sometimes you need that external push, even when it comes wrapped in irony.

The Gym Pain Paradox

Yesterday's workout is making itself known today. That good kind of muscle pain that reminds you that you actually did something. There's something oddly satisfying about feeling your body adapt and respond.

But then there's the wrist situation. Still not okay, and the doctor's surgery recommendation keeps echoing in my head. The rational part of me knows I should probably listen to medical professionals.

The irrational part of me: "Gym tomorrow anyway."

Classic case of knowing what you should do versus what you're actually going to do. We'll see which voice wins.

The Frontend Hunt Continues

Still actively searching for a paid frontend internship. The market feels weird right now - lots of opportunities but also lots of competition. It's like everyone decided to become a developer at the same time.

Backend projects are wrapping up soon, and I'm setting this ambitious goal: professionally done with web dev by the end of October. Not stopping development entirely, but transitioning from learning phase to application phase.

The timeline feels aggressive, but aggressive timelines sometimes force the breakthroughs you wouldn't get otherwise.

Building Connections That Matter

Speaking of feedback and finding the right people, here's today's wild thought experiment:

🎭 MUTINY'S "CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM REVERSAL" SERVICE

Imagine a platform where we screen your potential teammates to ensure they can actually execute what they critique. No more unsolicited advice from underperformers. We match you with people who've walked the walk, not just talked the talk.

Quality feedback requires quality experience. That's what real networking should be - connecting with people who understand your challenges because they've solved similar ones themselves.

This is exactly what Mutiny is trying to solve in the broader sense. Finding teams, investors, and opportunities from people who actually know what they're doing. Because the startup world has enough armchair experts already.

Tomorrow's Agenda

  1. Nail the presentation (for real this time)
  2. Ignore medical advice about my wrist (probably not smart)
  3. Keep hunting for that frontend role
  4. Continue the backend sprint toward October deadline

The beautiful chaos continues. Sometimes the best lessons come from watching someone else fail immediately after critiquing you. It's like the universe has a sense of humor about confidence and competence.


Currently navigating presentations, pain tolerance, and the eternal hunt for good feedback from qualified sources.

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