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Who Has a Positive Opinion of You?

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If you had to describe yourself through the eyes of someone who thinks highly of you, what would they say about you as a coder?

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𝚂𝚊𝚞𝚛𝚊𝚋𝚑 𝚁𝚊𝚒 •

My Mom 💖

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Dumebi Okolo •

So sweet.

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Jean-Michel 🕵🏻‍♂️ Fayard • • Edited

Who Has a Positive Opinion of You as a Dev?

Myself should be your go-to answer here.

You already are a real developer if you like this job enough that you are willing to continue to practice and improve

Imposter syndrome is a lying bitch.
Self-love and self-compassion are far more effective.

Now unfortunately imposter syndrome is really widespread among devs, with no correlation whatsover with their actual level.
So when your co-worker do something cool, remember to tell him so explicitly.
External validation may mean the world for her.

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Retiago Drago •

The last line reminds me of this screenshot I took from a website.

self-esteem is an inside job

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Jean-Michel 🕵🏻‍♂️ Fayard •

That's right, and the most important thing is to realize you don't need to do anything in particular to become worthy, you already are, it's your birth right.

Imagine a little baby smiling and you will understand why.

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Dumebi Okolo •

My partner. 😊
The most supportive person ever!

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Retiago Drago •

It is surprisingly simple but hard question for me. Why? It is because I've already spent almost 2 years after my graduation working and learning as coder and the person who can think about me as a coder holistically is just me. I would not just think the highly of me but also the lowly of me. I don't think my college friend would catch up with I've been doing these past 2 years and just recall where I was from the last 2 years ago. Do you know what I'm saying? 🥺

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Matt Ellen-Tsivintzeli •

Me, but only after I succeed at my assigned task. Up until that point I am the worst dev to ever walk the planet.

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Dumebi Okolo •

Be easy on yourself. Remember that there are people you don't even know who are rooting for you. ❤️

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Dumebi Okolo •

Thank you so much. ❤️