If you can't remember the best decision you've made, perhaps that really bad decision still stands out in your memory.
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If you can't remember the best decision you've made, perhaps that really bad decision still stands out in your memory.
For further actions, you may consider blocking this person and/or reporting abuse
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Staying too long at a toxic job. There were red flags from the first day. I should've left that first week, but I stuck it out for two years out of misplaced loyalty, or fear that I wouldn't find anything better – at least I liked my coworkers! Luckily, as it turned out, my next job was an amazing experience for 8 great years.
I learned to be more selective; to heed those red flags; to respect myself and my health; to expect a company to give its staff the tools they need to do the job; and to support my staff as they deserve.
That is a really bad job. At least gave you the experience and now you can tell differences between a good-bad job. You are brave and leave was a good decision.
I'm struggling on a similar experience and I know how it feels, I'm still waiting for something that nevers happens and after 4 years still is a toxic job.
Similar experience, also stayed for two years. actually I just noticed my employer yesterday!
Congrats on escaping, and good luck in the next venture!
Thanks :)
Not blogging/sharing content online.
Timeframe: 2004-05
My first job was to be a TA at a .NET 3-month bootcamp. During lab week, I'd assist students with their project assignments to apply everything they had learn during that week.
(Note: 80% of students = 5yrs+ exp developers leveling up their skill set).
Most students had no or very little HTML knowledge and struggled on their ASP.NET Webforms project.
After answering the same questions over and over, I created a through HTML/CSS tutorial. It had explicit details for anyone to follow.
It was a huge hit with the students, and so damn successful it became part of the school's regular curriculum. 🎆
One of the instructors (and later my mentor) asked me to present it to his class. And I did. (I presented it to every class afterwards)
Later, he encouraged me to create a blog and post it online.
But I was 22-23 with huge self-confidence issues. 😔
My belief, my perception inside my head, that others would make fun of me won.
I never created that blog.
If you got something, anything to share, put it up online and share it!
Most people want you to succeed and get better at it.
So, get blogging/writing/sharing today! 😃
My worst career decision was indecision about the unhappiness I felt at my job.
It was my first corporate programming job. The project was great for a few years, but eventually it went into life support mode.
I found it harder to go to work every day. I exhausted my vacation time early, came in late, left early... was basically a terrible employee and hated my job. Not sure why I wasn't fired.
I attributed my behavior at first to just being a lazy, worthless person who took a while to show it. (Ingrained guilt + inexperience in the working world.) At some point, I started trying things to make work interesting again (hosting lunch 'n learns, trying to rearchitect things with new tech). I eventually made the cognitive connection that not having creative work led to my unhappiness. Once I realized that, the bad behaviors stopped, and I asked my boss to move me to another project. But he didn't have anything else for me. I found a new job a few months later. (I left "the right way". I spent my notice transitioning my project to others.)
Final analysis: I was a builder in a maintainer's job. The comorbid issue was the unhealthiness of relying on guilt as a motivator. If I need to be 30 minutes late before I talk myself into getting out of bed on an average day... How do I raise enough guilt to face an especially demotivating day?
That experience brought me fresh appreciation for the old aphorism know thyself.
This can be a long answer.
So, I got my first job at a very renowned MNC here. As per the process, I was supposed to attend the company's training period. I was taught Java, html, css and Javascript. After completing the training period, I was expecting a job in the same technologies. But no, they put me in a support project for SAPAG, where I was supposed to do nothing, but follow a 15-20 step procedure daily for every customer request. The work was so easy, there's no training required for that. I requested my manager to allow me to automate the whole process so that the work force needed for that 24*7 project may reduce.. But he denied. He asked me to only focus on the procedure and do nothing else. There was no innovation, no creativity and definitely no learning. My biggest life regret was, not saying NO to that toxic project, and staying 2 years in it. I should've left earlier when I realized there was nothing to learn.
Unbelievable.
My manager rejected mine many times, even after I did it off the record and proved that our work can be made easy. Finally I'm quitting my job.
I'd like to blame it on being young and dumb but the worst 'decision' I made was to stop actively trying to progress myself once I finished university. I found a job as a junior dev which I grew to enjoy but was using a proprietry scripting language which I didn't realise the tremendous downside of until I had been there stagnating for 6 or so years. 'Thankfully' I got made redundant after nearly 10 years which lit a fire to actually improve myself albeit 8 years or so later than I should. So being lazy was definitely the worst decision I have made.
It's hard to say it was a bad career decision since I learned a lot, but I had a side project that I brought some partners onto and man did we not see eye-to-eye on operations or work well together. I was extremely frustrated and wound up wasting a lot of time. I learned a lot about working relationships, so I don't necessarily regret it, but it had a big impact for me in terms of what not to do.
I've made a lot of bad decisions I can look back on and sigh about, but I learned a lot from each one and I can't imagine it being all that different. That's kind of corny, but it's true.
Not a decision per se, but I regret being worried about not being up-to-date about certain libs that wound up being displaced by the next wave. I spent way too much time with FOMO that I didn't know it all. Lots of imposter syndrome at play.
Staying too long at jobs. It's actually happened multiple times. It's important to remember you're the only one who's really going to look out for you. If you're in a bad situation and can't change it, it's time to move on.
Second place is not getting things in writing. I had a boss at my first tech job who promised us he'd take care of us if he ever sold the company, but we had no contract. When he did sell, he rolled up the next day in his new Lexus and I got basically nothing.
Staying in the same position for too long.
It was my first "real" job in 2007 after graduating college in 2005, but had been working on the web since 99. I received one promotion from web developer to software engineer and then stalled for a number of years in the same group. I should have switched teams sooner. I missed out on a lot of opportunities.
I've seen this in many first programmers, they stick with their first job a long time. I encourage people to switch jobs early to ensure they get a feel for what is out there.
The main issue I ran into is that when I took the job it was such a huge jump in pay that I didn't realize I was at the very bottom of the pay scale for my position. I undersold myself because I moved from a three person shop to a huge corporation.
My big take away was if you're not moving to a new position every two years at least look for something new inside your company. Staying in one place will not help you.
'Worst' isn't always fair: I stayed too long at a job where I could actively participate in my son's early schooling. The first half was great: I was doing neat stuff, and I could be a really engaged dad. The 2nd half, it was comfortable and familiar, and I watched the field move past me.
I don't regret taking that job - we did some amazing things there - but I definitely stayed there about 3 years too long. Had I stayed much longer, a) I probably would have been let go, and b) I probably would have struggled to find a relevant role in IT, which I love.
Working in digital ad agency. Stayed there for about 10 months, added none to my portfolio, learned nothing, ended up despising the industry. I thought I would had the chance to create creative looking web apps/sites. In the end, what I got was working day and night, even on weekends to deliver generic looking microsite because that's what the client wants. Ugh.