One of my favourite books is Nightfall by Isaac Asimov and Robert Silverberg. The setup for the sorry is an old astronomy professor who has won his planetβs equivalent of the Nobel Prize for proving that the six suns in his solar system would never set on his planet at the same time. And night couldnβt fall.
And then his students did some calculations and realized he was wrong, and for a time every few thousand years there would be night.
They didnβt want to tell him thinking it would ruin his lifeβs work and leave him feeling dejected and worthless.
He got angry with them because he didnβt want to miss the chance to learn something new, and the thrill of discovery had the opposite effect to what the students expected and renewed his enthusiasm in the subject.
Renewed enthusiasm
Iβm not a Nobel winner by a long shot, but the professorβs attitude embodies the way I want to work. Doing the same thing and thinking thereβs nothing left to learn would demotivate me.
I love mentoring because I love learning.
When I build a team, I want people who arenβt afraid to tell me Iβm wrong, when I am, because thatβs what makes the team stronger. I know not everyone is confident at this at first but if I can find people who are confident in their opinions, my job is to nurture that.
If Iβm not being challenged, Iβm not learning. I know my experience has helped me get where I am, but I need to know where me and my team are going.
Tasks for you
If you are a leader or a mentor, embrace the opportunity to learn that you get from being wrong. Be vulnerable, sometimes, so that everyone knows itβs ok to be wrong, if you acknowledge it and make amends. Keep learning.
If youβre not, embrace your mistakes. (Link β my mistake) Next time you find yourself in that position, youβll call it experience. Learn by doing as well as by reading. The most interesting challenges youβll face wonβt have a manual. Keep learning.
Donβt let your career go dark.
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Good feedback needs to be actionable and timely. It should be whilst it's still fresh in everyone's mind, and provide insight ready for the next project or task. Don't be aggressive about it, as Linus Torvalds famously can be, but be direct and specific.