Mistakes help us grow, What was your one mistake that you want others not to do that?
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Mistakes help us grow, What was your one mistake that you want others not to do that?
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Starting with me: I trusted my employer on my first job and gave him my code without a contract so he didn't gave me any money so, DO NOT GIVE YOUR CODE TO ANYONE WITHOUT A CONTRACT
Adding to this, I found out late in my freelance career that a contract can be as simple as an email laying out โIโm going to do {scope of work} for {payment details} within {timeline}โ and having the other person reply that they agree.
Obligatory: Iโm not a lawyer, check your local laws, this worked for me but it may not apply to every situation.
Just putting it out there in case anyone feels daunted about trying to draft up contracts (make sure you have something in writing before you start working on stuff).
Thank you very much๐๐ป
I also fall into a similar trap and it was something I learnt the hard way
me too :(
Probably anything that involved trying to go it alone in different contexts if there was help that was available.
thanks a lot for sharing!
I'd also like to point out, none of these mistakes are regrets. Each was a learning experience.
thank you very much for sharing!
Being reluctant to change jobs
When I realized that I was coding myself into a corner where I knew that:
I should have developed my exit strategy immediately.
Be realistic about your prospects and your self-worth. Don't trap yourself because you still really like your job.
Keeping my creativity to myself
I often find myself coming up with great ideas from which my company could really benefit or I will have an epiphany about how to drastically improve one of my projects. Sometimes I've kept these to myself in case I can turn them into something on my own time, or I'll do little more than mention them in passing to my supervisor.
A better approach would be to write something up. Flesh out the details, do a cost/benefit analysis, approximate number of person-hours required, and so on. If you don't champion your ideas to the right people, they'll never see the light of day.
thanks a lot for sharing!
Thinking that a handful of free tutorials and short courses would be enough to learn web dev. When I finally started investing time and money into in-depth courses with experienced teachers and planned curriculums, I learned way more, way faster, and retained it a lot better.
In that same vein, I wish I had picked up some certifications earlier on than I did. Once I did that and added them to my LinkedIn profile, I started getting good quality inquiries from agencies/recruiters/employers.
thanks a lot for sharing!
have you got some examples of more in-depth courses?
Your mileage may vary, but some paid books/courses/platforms I found helpful in my career path, in the order I did them:
Hope that helps!
many thanks for your reply. my path does indeed vary but in any case these are extremely valuable resources
Not starting a side business early on.
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Pushing through and ignoring burnout. The longer you leave it the worse it gets
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I would say the biggest mistake I've made was when I started getting into freelancing, I started out by just going to the biggest freelancing platforms and placing bids there. Got very little good work from those places, and wasted quite a lot of time there. Eventually I joined a more exclusive contracting agency and got good work relatively easily through that.
Besides that, there are some things I wonder about sometimes, but it's unclear if they were mistakes.
After I graduated from university, I had an offer from Amazon. I turned it down because I had heard a lot of bad things about working there, and I took a lower paying offer from a lesser known company with a great work culture instead. Now I tend to think I would be better off if I had gone to Amazon, stayed for a year or something, got Amazon on my resume, and got my career off to a faster start that way. But I don't know, maybe I made the right choice after all.
Another thing was when I quit my programming job and moved to Japan to teach English. That didn't work out so well and I didn't stay there for very long. But that began a two year journey of digital nomadding and freelancing. It probably slowed me down career-wise, but it was also a great experience over all. Mistake? Perhaps, but I tend to think not.
Don't regret the past, thanks for sharing and good luck๐๐ป
Happy to hear it, thanks๐๐ป
I'm this women when chosing dev path decisions and Idk what to do at this point honestly

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