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Martin Lynch
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Stop Waiting for Permission: Create Your Own Way in Software

If you’ve been searching for a software job lately, you’ve probably seen it:
“Entry-level position: requires 3+ years of experience.”
“Junior developer: must have shipped production apps at scale.”

The door is labeled “entry-level,” but it’s locked with keys you don’t yet have. I know the feeling. I’ve been on the hunt since 2023, stacking rejection after rejection. At some point, I had to make a decision: either wait for permission to start my career… or carve out my own path.

I chose the second option.


The Broken Promise of “Entry-Level”

We’re told: go to school, finish a bootcamp, study hard, practice your algorithms, then you’ll get a shot. But the reality? The ladder’s missing its first few rungs.

That doesn’t mean you can’t climb. It means you need to build your own footholds.


Why You Can’t Wait Around

Tech isn’t slowing down. New frameworks, AI tools, and languages keep showing up every month. If you sit still, the industry moves on without you. That’s why “waiting for the call back” is the riskiest strategy you can take.

Instead, you have to show that you’re already building. That you’re already valuable. That you don’t need permission to contribute.


How to Build Your Own Way

Here are the things that helped me go from frustration to momentum:

  • Pick a problem you care about. Don’t just make another to-do app, solve something that matters to you. That’s where the motivation sticks.
  • Ship publicly. Put your projects on GitHub, make a demo site, write about your process. People hire what they can see.
  • Tell your story. Talk about your struggles, your wins, your “aha” moments. It makes you relatable and memorable.
  • Keep learning in motion. Every project should stretch you. New API? New database? New deployment method? That’s progress.

Rejection Doesn’t Define You

Every “no” you get from a recruiter or hiring manager could be a closed door. But there’s no rule that says you can’t build your own house next door.

Your worth as a developer isn’t defined by the jobs you didn’t land, it’s defined by the things you do with the skills you already have.


Final Word

If you’re hitting the same walls I did, here’s my encouragement: don’t wait for the industry to invite you in. Make your own way.

The best projects, startups, and communities in software weren’t built by people waiting for permission. They were built by people who got tired of waiting.

So if you’re stuck between rejection emails and silence, start building. Start writing. Start creating.

Because sometimes, the only way forward is the one you make yourself.

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