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[Off Topic] Should a developer marry another developer? What are the chances?
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The next Friday I will marry with a developer.
I explain her Design Patterns, OOP, dependency injection and synchronization problems.
She explains me Curryfication, Monads, Express and Webpack.
Its really fun to share the subjects that we love :).
Awesome. Good luck in advance!
Thank you for the coolnes :D. Now I'm cooking, and she is coding for a freelance job, with HIMYM as background noise <3
How is the marriage working out? :P
Great! And now she es pregnant! <3
Congratulations! Junior developer is on his/her way.. The first thing he/she will say is, Hello world! :D
No, you shouldn't marry ever. To get married is to import a heck load of dependencies into your life that could break at any moment.
Hahahaha I like this. +1 for you.
I once met a woman through a dating site – she was a Rails developer and I was an Oracle data warehouse architect-turned-manager and hating it.
Now we're married and working together.
I have no complaints.
:) When I read that, I was expecting a twist like... "...but she was a Rails programmer, so I called it off",ha ha.
All the best to you.
I didn't marry a dev, but neither did my wife. She married a pre-law student. I married a high school physics teacher. Now I'm a full-time dev, and she's still a physics teacher but she's pretty handy with Mathematica, LaTeX and MyOpenMath, where she codes quizzes for her students to take.
We don't talk about code a lot. Part of it is that we know totally different programming languages. But there's so much more to us than what we do at work. I honestly don't think there's anything less important in a marriage than whether you have the same career path. I married my best friend and for all I care she could be a deep sea diver.
On the one hand, I think it would be nice to be able to talk about interesting dev topics / experiences. But on the other hand, what if you disagree about fundamentals like tabs vs spaces? 🔥🔥🔥
It could also be really disappointing when one of you is super interested in dev and the other just does it for a job and isn't really interested in talking about it outside of work. In this case, it may not be much different from marrying a non-dev.
Then what if you are both focused devs and you start to become competitive with one another. I guess some people thrive on that, too.
At the end of the day, like any other marriage, it depends on two people willing to stick together and work things out.
Edit: I don't mean to imply that dev-to-dev marriages are destined for trouble. The ideal scenario is that it works out just right, and you have a deeper level of sharing with them than you would otherwise. But the above is just to point out that marrying a dev doesn't guarantee that.
If the other person prefers
tabs, run away, fast. ;)Would it matter if the other prefers 2, 4 or 8 spaces for indents; or K & R style curly braces :)
Dev elopers share a private connection.
"HTTPS: I love you."
"With this string, I thee web."
I'm done.
Absolutely! And when you want to dish on the other people you work with, you can very easily be like
SSH:
<<< Oh my God, Kevin in sales is SUCH A WHINY DOUCHE!!
Haha, brilliant!
Pairing at its finest :)
One dev/dev couple I know of where I work, they work in different departments but take lunch together and have been doing that successfully for 35 years :)
That's cute :)
That...is one of the cuties things I have ever heard.
This answer will vary for every relationship and each person. I've seen couples throughout tech who are both devs so it is possible. But it is ok if people don't marry devs. Developers marrying another a developer are just like every relationship. Both people need to put in the work and effort to make it work.
I've never been married, but I began learning how to code when I was in a relationship. I learned from that relationship that I don't care if my future partner is a developer or not. What I do care about is if he's supportive of my career and understanding of what life for a dev is like.
Myself and my partner are both Devs. Iv been doing it quite a lot longer than her but we work in different stacks. It's great to be able to talk about the ups and downs of work and know the other understands, while neither being an expert in the others technologies means we are unable to critisise each other. Works very well for us.