A Letter to Jobseekers: Don't Give Up!

#mentalhealth #programming #motivation #career

Dear Jobseekers,

Looking for a job can be hard sometimes, especially if you are at the beginning of your career.

Let's Begin with My Story

I remember waking up, opening my Gmail app, and seeing the rejection email on my screen. It felt like the world was over. After four months of searching for a job, I thought this one was the one. The interview went well, but a week later, they rejected me.

I hit rock bottom. I stayed in bed for hours, quit the gym, and didn’t talk much. I stopped going out. I saw days go by without doing anything.

Every day, I wondered what happened to me. A few months earlier, I was in a much better place. My boss was happy with my work, and I was motivated and productive as ever. Now, I look back and think, "Am I really that bad?" What happened to the guy who was promoted to a lead position after just four months?

I sent more than 500 applications, and nothing. I was trying so hard not to give up, not to break.

But I stood up. I knew it would end eventually. I never gave up on myself; I just couldn’t. I knew I was good at my job, and I kept moving forward.

The Struggle is Real, But So Are You

What I'm saying is that job hunting is a rough path. Most of us have gone through it, and you probably will too.

Take it easy on yourself, and don't give up. Continue to grow and improve. I know it's tough, but don’t let rejections bring you down. Use them as fuel to become better—not only in your career but in your life. And remember: You are valuable, and your time will come.

Don't be afraid to ask for help

Continue interacting with your loved ones and know that there are people who care for you and don’t want to see you sad.

Don’t be shy to ask for help, whether it’s from a family member or a senior in your field. Sometimes, all it takes is sending a quick message on WhatsApp or LinkedIn to start a meaningful conversation.

If none of that works for you, a hug is always free here.

I hope you get past these hard days, and last but not least, don’t give up on yourself.

If you have any advice or stories for jobseekers, I would be happy to hear them in the comments. Sharing your experience might help someone else on their journey.

Sincerely,
Ali Navidi

Top comments (10)

Ben Halpern • Nov 21

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Ali Navidi • Nov 21

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Dusan Petkovic • Nov 22

One suggestion that I would give to jobseekers is to reach to their contacts, also be active on networks like this one and linkedin make yourself seen, build some projects, it worked for me a year ago.