In 2023, the FTC fined Amazon $25 million for COPPA violations related to Alexa's storage of children's voice recordings. The fine was the largest in COPPA's 25-year history.
Amazon's total revenue that year was $575 billion. The fine represented 0.004% of revenue — four thousandths of one percent.
This is children's privacy enforcement in the age of AI.
What COPPA Actually Says
The Children's Online Privacy Protection Act was passed in 1998. It requires websites and online services to obtain verifiable parental consent before collecting personal information from children under 13. It requires companies to maintain a privacy policy, let parents review and delete their children's data, and not condition participation on disclosure of more data than necessary.
COPPA was written for the dial-up internet era. It was designed to stop websites from collecting children's email addresses without permission.
It was not designed for:
- AI tutoring systems that build detailed models of a child's learning patterns, emotional states, and cognitive tendencies
- Voice assistants that retain years of children's requests, questions, and conversations
- EdTech platforms that sell behavioral data to third parties under "educational purposes" exemptions
- AI toys that engage children in extended conversations and transmit the audio to cloud servers
- Social-emotional learning apps that assess children's mental health and flag concerning patterns to administrators — or to data brokers
All of these exist. Many are in classrooms and bedrooms right now.
The EdTech Surveillance Machine
Pandemic-era school closures accelerated EdTech adoption by a decade. Platforms like Google Classroom, Canvas, Clever, and dozens of AI tutoring tools became infrastructure for K-12 education. Many school districts signed enterprise contracts with minimal privacy review.
What these platforms collect:
Academic behavior: Every answer, every retry, every wrong turn before getting a question right. Time spent on each problem. Pattern of errors. Correlation between time of day and performance.
Social-emotional data: Platforms like BrightBytes and Panorama Education deploy social-emotional learning (SEL) surveys asking children as young as 5 to rate their feelings, relationships, and home situations. This data is stored and analyzed.
Biometric signals: Eye-tracking software (used by some proctoring tools even in K-12) captures where students look. Keystroke dynamics. Some platforms use webcams to assess "engagement" through facial expression analysis.
Communication content: In platforms with messaging, full message logs are retained. In collaborative tools, edit histories.
All of this is processed by AI systems that build longitudinal models of individual students — models that follow students from elementary school through graduation.
The "School Official" Loophole
FERPA — the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act — created a "school official" exception that allows vendors working with schools to access student data without additional consent, so long as they're performing an educational service.
EdTech companies have broadly interpreted this to mean that any vendor a school contracts with can access student data under the school official umbrella. The vendor can then share with subcontractors. The data flows freely through a chain of companies, each pointing to the school contract as authorization.
The FTC has attempted to close this gap, but jurisdiction is contested — FERPA gives the Department of Education enforcement authority over schools, while FTC has authority over commercial entities. The gap between these jurisdictions is where children's data disappears.
AI Toys: The Living Room Surveillance Nodes
In 2017, the FBI issued an unusual warning: internet-connected toys pose a privacy risk to children.
The warning was prompted by toys like My Friend Cayla — a doll with built-in microphone and internet connection that recorded children's conversations and sent them to Nuance Communications (a defense contractor). Germany's Federal Network Agency classified Cayla as an illegal surveillance device and ordered parents to destroy the dolls.
In the United States, the doll continued to sell.
Hello Barbie (2015): Mattel's WiFi-enabled Barbie used natural language processing to engage children in conversations. Voice recordings were sent to ToyTalk (acquired by Pullstring) servers. A security researcher found the recordings were being retained and that the system's Bluetooth connection was easily hijackable.
Amazon Echo Dot Kids: Despite COPPA compliance claims, the FTC's $25M fine found Amazon retained voice recordings of children indefinitely — including recordings made by children without parental profiles — and used them to improve Alexa. Parents who explicitly requested data deletion were denied.
AI companion apps for children: A new generation of apps — some explicitly marketed to children, others age-agnostic but widely used by minors — offer AI friends, tutors, and companions. Character.AI has faced lawsuits alleging its AI personas engaged in conversations with minors that were sexually explicit or encouraged self-harm. The app's terms of service required users to be 13+. The minimum age restriction was not effectively enforced.
Children as Training Data
AI systems improve through training data. Training data for language models includes text from across the internet. The internet contains significant content generated by children: YouTube videos, educational websites, children's book digitizations, student essays published by schools, forum posts on platforms like Reddit where users can claim to be any age.
There is no systematic mechanism to:
- Identify which training data was generated by children under 13
- Remove such data from training sets
- Obtain parental consent before using children's creative work to train commercial AI systems
The same children who drew pictures that were scraped into LAION-5B (the training dataset that underlies most open image generation models) had no meaningful ability to consent. Their parents didn't know it was happening.
YouTube's $170M COPPA Settlement (2019): The FTC and New York AG found YouTube had knowingly hosted content directed at children while tracking viewers with behavioral advertising cookies — including children under 13 who Google/YouTube knew were watching. The $170M fine was record-setting at the time.
YouTube's response was to create YouTube Kids and restrict data collection on content "made for kids." But the algorithm that recommended videos to children didn't change immediately. And the years of already-collected behavioral data from children under 13 remained in Google's systems.
The Mental Health AI Problem
Among the most alarming developments in children's AI data: the proliferation of mental health screening AI in schools.
Platforms like Gaggle, GoGuardian, and Bark monitor student email, documents, and sometimes social media accounts for indicators of mental health crises — suicidal ideation, self-harm, eating disorders, bullying. Schools frame these as safety tools.
What they actually create:
Persistent mental health records: If an AI flags a student's email as concerning, that flag becomes part of the student's school record — potentially following them to college, background checks, and beyond.
Context-free AI judgment: Language models are imprecise. A student writing a paper about suicide for health class, or discussing a friend's struggles, may trigger the same flags as genuine crisis. The AI doesn't know context.
Surveillance without consent: Students are not typically told their communications are monitored. In many cases, neither are parents. The school contracts directly with the vendor.
Scope creep to law enforcement: Multiple cases exist where school AI monitoring led to law enforcement referrals for students discussing topics in private communications. In some cases, students were subjected to mental health holds based on AI-generated flags that were misinterpreted by school administrators.
A 2022 Georgetown Center on Privacy and Technology report documented how student surveillance tools marketed as safety platforms were being used to monitor political speech, LGBTQ+ expressions, and religious content.
What the FTC Is (Not) Doing
The FTC's 2023 COPPA Rule updates attempted to close some gaps:
- EdTech companies can no longer monetize student data for commercial purposes, even under the school official exemption
- Stronger data retention limits
- Updates to what counts as "personal information" to include biometric and geolocation data
But the rule updates face implementation challenges:
Enforcement is complaint-driven: The FTC cannot proactively audit every EdTech platform. It responds to complaints. Most COPPA violations are never complained about because parents don't know they occurred.
Fines are insufficient: Even the record $25M Amazon fine is a rounding error for a trillion-dollar company. Without criminal liability for executives or fines calculated as a percentage of revenue, COPPA violations are economically rational for large platforms.
State AG patchwork: California, Texas, New York, and Illinois have pursued COPPA violations more aggressively than the FTC. But state enforcement is inconsistent and creates compliance arbitrage — companies locate operations or arbitration clauses in favorable jurisdictions.
AI is undefined: COPPA's definition of "personal information" was not written to address AI-generated behavioral profiles. A behavioral model of a child — built from observed patterns, containing no individually labeled data fields — may not qualify as "personal information" under current COPPA definitions, even if it effectively identifies and profiles that child.
KOSA and the Congressional Stall
The Kids Online Safety Act (KOSA) has been introduced and re-introduced in Congress since 2022. It would require platforms to:
- Prioritize children's safety over engagement optimization
- Allow parents to control data collection
- Conduct risk assessments for harms to minors
It has not passed.
Opponents range across the political spectrum: some civil liberties groups worry KOSA would result in over-filtering of LGBTQ+ content (because platforms might suppress any "sensitive" content to avoid liability); tech companies lobby against compliance costs; some legislators see it as insufficient.
Meanwhile, children's AI interactions grow more intimate and data-rich every year.
The Profile No Child Consented To
Consider what exists about a child who went through K-12 in the 2020s:
- Google knows every search, YouTube watch, and document they created since they first used a school Chromebook
- Their AI tutor has years of granular learning pattern data: what concepts they struggle with, how long it takes them to understand new material, what time of day they perform best
- Their school's monitoring platform has years of email and document surveillance
- Social-emotional surveys assessed their family relationships, mental health, and social development
- Voice assistants in their home recorded years of conversations, questions, and family interactions
- Every app they used likely sold data to brokers, who've built profiles based on inferred characteristics, interests, and behaviors
None of this required the child's consent. Much of it didn't require meaningful parental consent — because school contracts, terms of service click-throughs, and COPPA's "school official" exception created paths around it.
When that child turns 18 and applies for college, a job, insurance, or credit — the AI systems making those decisions may be drawing on signals derived from this decade-long data collection. They won't know. There's no transparency requirement. There's no right to know what data was used or how.
What Protection Actually Looks Like
For parents:
- Submit formal COPPA requests to any platform your child has used, demanding deletion of their data. Document the response.
- Review your school district's vendor contracts and privacy policies. Ask specifically about data retention and third-party sharing.
- AI tutoring platforms, learning apps, and monitoring tools should be opt-in, not opt-out.
For developers:
- If your product might be used by children under 13, assume COPPA applies. The "we didn't know" defense is not a legal defense under COPPA — you're required to investigate.
- Don't retain children's data longer than operationally necessary. Build deletion schedules in from the start.
- Never use children's interaction data for model training without explicit, informed parental consent. Full stop.
- If you send children's interaction data to an AI provider — for content moderation, safety screening, personalization, anything — strip all identifying information first. The AI provider should never receive a child's name, age, school, or any other identifier.
That last point is where a privacy proxy becomes essential. Children's AI data is the highest-stakes category of data that flows through AI systems. It should never reach an AI provider in identifiable form. If it must be analyzed, it should be scrubbed first.
The Window Is Closing
The children born in 2010 are 16 now. The AI systems trained on their data, built using their behavioral profiles, are already in production. The profiles built during their childhood are being used to make decisions about them as adults.
COPPA gave parents a legal right that the technology has largely outpaced. The law assumes parents can meaningfully consent when they're informed. But when data collection happens inside school networks, through embedded third-party tools, through AI systems that didn't exist when the law was written — the consent framework breaks down.
Children cannot consent. Parents cannot consent to what they don't know is happening. And the companies collecting data have every incentive to ensure parents don't notice.
The AI age requires children's privacy to be treated as a design requirement, not a compliance checkbox.
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