Family formal photos at a UK wedding: how to plan the list, the location, and the order so the whole thing takes 10 minutes and nobody's grumpy.
The family formal photos are the most predictable 10 minutes of any UK wedding — if (and only if) you plan them. Most couples spend 30-45 minutes on a list that should take 10. Here is how to plan the list, the order, and the location so nobody's grumpy by the time you get back to the canapés.
Family formal photos at a UK wedding — Liva Paseka Photography
The list — who actually needs to be in the photos
Be honest with yourself: the people who need to be in a formal photo are the people who will be upset if they're not. That is rarely 'everyone who came to the wedding.' A typical 80-guest wedding has 6-8 group combinations; a 150-guest wedding has 8-10. The list is shorter than you think.
Group shot with grandparents at a wedding — Liva Paseka Photography
The order — smallest groups first
Always. Bride + parents. Groom + parents. Bride + each sibling. Groom + each sibling. Bride + groom + grandparents. Bride + groom + both sets of parents. Bride + groom + immediate family. The logic: as the group gets bigger, the people who are 'in' the photo shrink. People who are only in the first three combinations can leave after 4 minutes.
The location — within earshot of the drinks reception
Two minutes is the maximum. Any further and people stop paying attention, the photographer stops getting eye contact, and the list takes 30 minutes. Within earshot of the canapés and a drinks station. That is the whole thing.
Wedding photographer directing a group — Liva Paseka Photography
The timing — directly after the ceremony, before the canapés
Two reasons: (1) the formal photos should be the first thing after the ceremony, before the drinks reception loosens everyone up, (2) the photographer needs 10 minutes of everyone else's attention and that is easiest to get before the canapés start. The canapé window is 60-90 minutes; the formal photos are the first 10 of those.
The fallback — the one combo you skip if you're running late
The one combo you skip is the one with the most distant relatives. There is always one. The bride-and-groom-with-extended-family photo is the one that gets cut when the timing slips, and the world does not end. Be honest with your partner about which one that is in advance.
What your photographer should be doing
Three things: (1) the list (printed, in their hand, with first names), (2) the directions ('stand there, look here, that is great'), (3) the actual photos (5-8 frames per combination so they can swap out blinkers). The photographer should be running the show, not you. Hand them the list and let them drive.
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